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A Message from Pastor Tunde Olayinka
I used to think a fulfilled life was all about ticking boxes: degrees on the wall, a successful career, and maybe a few trophies to boot. But then there was that late-night walk under a sky full of stars when I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was missing—something deeper. That’s when I tripped over Ephesians 2:10 and realized, wait, maybe there’s more to a ‘fulfilled life’ than what we chase on paper. What if real fulfillment comes from finding, and actually living, God’s unique purpose for you?
Rethinking Fulfillment: Beyond the Trophy Shelf
Have you ever reached a milestone you thought would change everything, only to feel a strange emptiness afterward? Maybe you finally landed that promotion, graduated with honors, or achieved a long-awaited breakthrough in your business or marriage. For a moment, there’s a rush—a sense of victory. But then, quietly, a question creeps in: Is this all there is?
It’s a feeling many of us know but rarely talk about. Our culture tells us that a fulfilled life is built on stacking up achievements—trophies on a shelf, diplomas on the wall, promotions on our résumé. But what happens when the applause fades and the next morning feels just like the last? Research shows that fulfillment in life goes beyond material success; it involves living a life that honors God and contributes to the greater good.
Achievement Doesn’t Guarantee Contentment
Let me share a story. Imagine you’ve worked for years to climb the corporate ladder. Late nights, missed family dinners, endless hustle. Finally, you get the promotion. Everyone congratulates you. There’s a new office, a bigger paycheck, maybe even a fancy title. But after the celebration, you sit alone at your desk and realize you don’t feel any more complete than you did yesterday. The emptiness is still there, just dressed in a nicer suit.
You’re not alone. Many people experience this post-promotion emptiness. It’s a quiet reminder that personal breakthroughs—while valuable—don’t always lead to a meaningful life. They’re milestones, not destinations.
Why Our Culture’s Definition of Success Doesn’t Always Add Up
Society has a formula for fulfillment: work hard, achieve more, collect rewards. But this formula often leaves us chasing the next big thing, never truly satisfied. We’re told that a fulfilled life is about education, business victories, political influence, or marital status. Yet, even when we check every box, something feels missing.
Christian fulfillment, as research and scripture suggest, isn’t measured by the trophies on your shelf. It’s about discovering God’s purpose for your life and walking in it. That’s where true meaning is found. As C.S. Lewis once said:
“We are all looking for meaning, but purpose is what gives direction to our search.”
Scriptural Detour: There’s a Bigger Plan at Play
Ephesians 2:10 offers a powerful reminder:
“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.”
You are God’s unique creation—His workmanship. That means your life isn’t an accident, and your value isn’t defined by worldly achievements. God’s purpose for you is bigger than any title or accomplishment. He has prepared good works for you to walk in, works that bring lasting fulfillment and impact.
When you align your life with God’s purpose, personal breakthroughs take on new meaning. They’re no longer just about your own success—they become opportunities to serve, to love, to make a difference. Studies indicate that personal breakthroughs often result from aligning one's life with divine purpose and seeking spiritual guidance. That’s where the journey toward a meaningful life truly begins.
From Breakthroughs to Purpose: A Shift in Perspective
Maybe you’ve been striving for years, hoping that the next achievement will finally fill the void. Or perhaps you’re just starting out, wondering what it means to live a fulfilled life. Wherever you are, consider this: fulfillment isn’t found in what you achieve, but in who you become as you walk in God’s purpose.
Education, business, and relationships are important, but they aren’t the source of lasting joy.
God’s purpose for your life gives meaning to every breakthrough and every setback.
Christian fulfillment is about living for something greater than yourself.
You were created for more than just collecting trophies. You were made to walk in the good works God has prepared for you. That’s where a truly meaningful life begins—beyond the trophy shelf, in the heart of God’s unique purpose for you.
Finding Your ‘God Groove’: Uncovering Your Life’s True Purpose
What if life fulfillment wasn’t about climbing ladders or collecting trophies? What if the deepest sense of joy came from discovering God’s Purpose for your life—and walking in it, step by step, even when it feels ordinary? Ephesians 2:10 whispers this truth: “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.” You are not an accident. You are God’s masterpiece, uniquely shaped for a purpose that’s bigger than any worldly definition of success.
Listening for God’s Direction: The Art of Tuning In
Sometimes, finding purpose feels like trying to catch a radio signal in a storm. But what if you could tune in, even just for a moment? Research shows that spiritual fulfillment often begins with simple, intentional practices that open your heart to God’s voice. You don’t need a mountaintop or a monastery. Try these practical—and maybe a little off-the-wall—ways to listen for God’s direction:
Journaling: Write out your prayers, questions, and even your frustrations. Sometimes, clarity comes when you see your thoughts on paper.
Silent Walks: Leave the headphones at home. Walk in nature, noticing the world God made. Let your mind wander and see what surfaces.
Gardening Meditations: Digging in the dirt can be holy work. As you plant or pull weeds, ask God to show you what He’s growing in your life.
These aren’t just spiritual “extras.” They’re invitations to pause, breathe, and check in with God—right in the middle of your everyday routines. I’ve found that even washing dishes or folding laundry can become sacred when I ask, “God, what are You saying to me right now?”
‘Purpose Moments’: When You Feel Most Alive
Think back: When was the last time you felt truly yourself—fully alive, even if just for a heartbeat? Maybe it was helping a neighbor, comforting a friend, or creating something beautiful. These are your ‘purpose moments’. They may seem small, but they’re often clues to your unique calling.
Research indicates that finding purpose is less about grand gestures and more about recognizing these everyday sparks. God’s plan for your life isn’t hidden in some far-off future; it’s woven into the fabric of your daily actions. When you serve, encourage, or create, you’re stepping into the good works God prepared for you.
"The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world's deep hunger meet." — Frederick Buechner
Let that quote sink in. Your “God groove” isn’t just about personal happiness—it’s about meeting the world’s needs with the gifts God has given you. That’s where life fulfillment truly begins.
Good Works: Central to Your Design
It’s easy to think of good works as something extra—something you do if you have time, or if you’re feeling especially “spiritual.” But Ephesians 2:10 says otherwise. You were created for good works. They’re not an add-on to your faith; they’re the very reason you were made.
Studies indicate that Christians find meaning and spiritual fulfillment by aligning their lives with God’s plan and serving others. When you step into the good works God has prepared for you, you’re not just checking off a religious to-do list. You’re living out your true design. You’re echoing God’s creativity, compassion, and love in a world that desperately needs it.
So, don’t underestimate the power of small acts. A kind word, a helping hand, a listening ear—these are the building blocks of a fulfilled life. Each one is a step in the path God has set before you.
Checking In: Making the Mundane Sacred
Here’s a secret: you don’t have to wait for a “big moment” to find your purpose. Sometimes, the most profound encounters with God happen during the most ordinary routines. I often pause, even in the middle of a busy day, to ask, “God, am I in step with You?” That simple question can turn the mundane into the miraculous.
Remember, you are God’s workmanship. You were created for a purpose. And every day, in every small act of love, you have the chance to walk in the good works He’s prepared for you. That’s the heart of spiritual fulfillment—and the beginning of a truly fulfilled life.
Faith in the Real World: Good Works, Mistakes, and the Unexpected Fulfillment
If you’ve ever wondered whether your life is on the right track, or if a misstep has thrown you off God’s plan, you’re not alone. The Christian perspective on fulfillment goes far beyond the world’s definition of success. It’s not just about climbing ladders—whether in business, education, or even relationships. True fulfillment, as Scripture reminds us, is about discovering God’s unique purpose for you and walking in it, even when the path is winding or downright weird.
Consider this: “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus unto good works, which God hath before ordained that we should walk in them.” (Ephesians 2:10) You are God’s masterpiece, crafted with intention, designed for good works that He’s already prepared. Sometimes, though, those “good works” don’t look like what you expected. Sometimes, they show up in the middle of what feels like a failure.
Let’s be honest—life rarely goes according to plan. Maybe you’ve experienced it: that job interview you thought would change everything, only to walk out red-faced after mixing up the company’s name with their competitor’s. (Yes, that happened to me. I still cringe thinking about it.) At the time, it felt like the end of the world. But looking back, that detour was the nudge I needed to discover a calling I never would have considered otherwise. Sometimes, the doors that slam shut are the ones that steer you toward God’s real purpose for your life.
Research shows that the Christian life is not about perfection, but about faith—about trusting that God’s plan is bigger than our mistakes. The Christian perspective encourages us to see every misstep, every awkward moment, as part of a greater story. Fulfillment isn’t found in never failing; it’s found in walking forward, believing that God can use even your most embarrassing moments for good.
But what about the ordinary days? The truth is, good works aren’t always grand gestures. Sometimes, they’re as simple as forgiving a neighbor who borrowed your lawnmower and “forgot” to return it for three months. Or volunteering at a local shelter, not because you have to, but because you feel a tug on your heart. These small acts of service are the heartbeat of Christian living. They reflect God’s love in ways that ripple out further than you’ll ever see.
I once found myself stuck in traffic behind a family of squirrels crossing the road. Annoyed at first, I realized—sometimes God uses the strangest detours to slow us down, to notice the world around us, to remind us that life isn’t always about getting from point A to point B. Maybe you’ve had your own “squirrel moments”—unexpected pauses that make you rethink your priorities or notice someone else’s need. Sometimes, the weird stuff matters most.
If you’re wrestling with doubts or feeling like you’ve missed your shot, remember:
“There is no pit so deep, that God’s love is not deeper still.” — Corrie ten Boom
God’s plan is not derailed by your mistakes or detours. In fact, those moments might be the very places He meets you most powerfully.
Living a fulfilled life, from a Christian perspective, means embracing the journey with all its twists, turns, and surprises. It’s about letting go of the pressure to be perfect and instead, choosing to walk in faith—open to God’s redirection, ready to serve, and willing to see purpose in the unexpected. Good works, after all, are not just tasks to check off a list; they are opportunities to reflect God’s love, to glorify Him, and to discover the deeper meaning He has woven into your story.
So, if you find yourself on a detour, take heart. You are God’s workmanship, created for good works, and your life—quirks, mistakes, and all—is part of a plan bigger and more beautiful than you can imagine. That’s the real fulfillment. That’s the adventure of Christian living.
Pastor Tunde Olayinka
